We all know that your friends can help generate and create some pretty fun opportunities... and at some point or another they become the person who helps navigate the cutie over there staring at you... to where you are sitting and then it begins.
At some point the roll of wing man switches depending on the situation... if there is a guy who is feeling your friend and not you...well sometimes you just have to take one for the team and entertain the not so appealing friend...you do this because... you want your girlfriend to be happy... and well you think he's a good possible catch for her too... and this is not his only friend... of course... you keep the not so appealing friend at arms distance because if things work out with the cutie and your friend... you have an opportunity to meet other men. Then she can turn into your wing man.
It is very important that your wing man not be a hater... meaning... if there is a clear attraction between you and the guy...but she keeps asserting her self to attract attention of the guy... and not taking one for the team a horrible wing man will always want to leave and act like she's tired of talking to these dudes... while you plead to her to stay cause something is clearly happening between the guy you like and you... This is when you realize... she is not a cool wing man and probably won't go out with her in that capacity again. Wing people just doesn't sound right and is not really a good idea... cause if it's too many women... a guy might feel too intimidated to come up and speak...so in these situations it's always good for it to be you and your homegirl...but if he is so bold...make sure the group of females you are with...really have your back... and boost you up...cause you would do the same for them!
What also makes a good wing person is that they can tell when it's going south...and usually you have a nice que that says get me outta here... your wing person then snaps into action helping you avert the situation all together. Saving you from the boredom and ignorance that has just taken place.
The reason other Men make good wing men... is because now a days men are bold and they don't care who your with... but your guy friend can talk you up... or be like this is my sis she's cool as hell... or what ever... the case is... you make a good wing man to your guy friends... cause women are like...who's this dope girl hanging out with this guy and why aren't they dating... well if your like family to him... you know his in's and outs... so who better to say... look he's a good guy...go for it!
I want to thank my wing women... cause it always changes... and thank them for knowing the rules and sometimes taking one for the team... as I do for them on occasion... but oh the fun we have!
Do you have the right wing man... if not I suggest you re-evaluate...and adjust accordingly!
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