Yep I did it... I admit... I want a man... a companion... a bestie... a loved one... someone who knows me better than myself. Whew that's wasn't as hard as I thought... and I don't even know why I was tripping... why not admit that to myself... I want a better half.
Now I know, two halves don't make a whole...in relationships... but two whole's make a movement.... and that's what I want a movement honey. I think men think... that I am a spit fire... to much... to strong... but if you actually took time to pull back the layers you would probably see that I am just a girl... a laid back girl...who wants to be loved in that extra special way... that only a Great Man can love... so sorry if I don't settle for just anything... but I wasn't raised that way. I love to cook...I love sports mainly football... I don't like drama... and I am the life of the party... not cause I'm trying too... just cause I am.
I am learning more and more the perception of me... but the one man who says... hmm there is more to her than what I think... and I want to know... is the one that I am going to marry... see people are always saying... don't put to much out there...don't show all your cards don't do this and don't do that... well...I say.. don't let me get away...I am honest maybe to a fault, but that is one extra thing to love about me. Cause when I love him... he's gonna know it FULLY!
I was thinking I was going list all the things I want in a man but I realized that may be futile cause it is ever changing... and with all things it is a getting to know process...If I start making demands on the type of guy I want and putting list together... I may miss out on the guy I'm supposed to be with... cause there is only one person that knows exactly what I need and that's GOD. But I also know the things that I would appreciate in the one that I love with in reason ;)
Now I am not crazy enough to think that a relationship is gonna be perfect... and I am also not crazy enough to think it doesn't take work... for the most part I am old fashioned in that way... If I were to be married... I'm married for life... Not till we get on each others nerves... or you decide your bored... Marriage is a union... an everyday work in progress... and the guy that I need... needs to be on that same page.
Ladies... do you have an idea of the man you want... who's gonna feed you... need you... lead you? What your deal breakers are? If not start thinking about it... date around...find out what you do and don't like all men are different. I know as women get older there list become shorter and shorter and their requirements start to dwindle... I think its a good and bad thing... Good because you are now giving your self a real shot at love... but you might also settle for something less than great for YOU! Like almost if you didn't settle for that one the next one would have been great!
Okay Okay...enough already... cause not only am I talking to you out there but I'm talking to my self too. So in closing... to my lady friends if you know of any good men that you are not interested in...in any capacity... hook a sister up... and guy friends too... or if your a guy and reading this... and want to give a shot at pulling back some layers... I promise I won't make it that hard for you... well maybe ;)!
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