Easy Tiger!

There are a few things I need to remember in the dating game... But I think first and foremost... I need to remember that people don't think life is as urgent as I do.

I have had a seriously life altering thing happen to me... being diagnosed with cancer at such a young age... changes things it changes you....so much so...that you begin to think...why the hell would I need to be someone else for someone to love me...or why should I change who I am... the answer to that is... I don't have to...and I'm not going to.

I love me... I love the fact that I get a second chance at life and my plan is to live it to the fullest...and if you can't be down with that... then you can't be down with me...now with that being said...I do realize...men are a delicate situation... and because I'm on the "look how much thinking do you need to do?  Life is too damn short mode"... people ( men) are just not there with me.  So I get it I get it... If I like someone... I say so... if I want something I ask for it.   But I realize there is a bit of a game that has to be played, but it's very tuff for me to play... especially now with all this new information... tomorrow is not promised... so I live for the day.  Which (might) answer why I might Kiss or Have sex quick!

I also understand that this may come across as too much for some... and okay I get it... but at the same token get me too...or let's at least meet in the middle... Think of it this way... You like someone... they like you...you are so busy playing games and trying to be cool and you miss your opportunity to be with a really great person... I'm not sure who invented these silly rules...and everyone needing to have their ish together and all that...cause when you go... none if it is going to matter... if you would just let go and have a lil fun and be a bit spontaneous...I also understand that people are very protective of their hearts but what's the use in having a heart if you don't use it... You Love hard you may get hurt... but you will heal and love again... I promise!

I know I got a lil deep today...but it's the truth and you know it... LIVE a little....LOVE a little.....have FUN a little!  Looks like I just talked myself outta slowing down :)