Monday, June 20, 2011

On Line Dating

I really can't say that I have ever given it a real try...I mean I had someone make me a profile on Match for me, but it just kind of made me feel slimy...now no offense to anyone that has found true love on Match or any other dating site...but I just don't think that's my journey...I mean can you...those of you that have found love...tell me what made you go on line in the first place?

Maybe it will help change my mind...I wonder sometimes if I am even ready for all of that...I mean I desire companionship but I don't know if I am ready for someone sooo serious...or for someone who is sooo ready for the next steps of marriage and what ever else...I don't think Online dating should be for someone who wants to date casually...I think that's rude and you can just do that on your own time.

I also think that if you are too busy to find a date on your own...why/how would you find the time to date me.  I mean isn't this why your on there...cause you don't get out much to find a date...or cause your a work a holic...so how will you find the time...I mean time is the best commodity.

I would love to hear some different opinions about on line dating.  The thing is I know a few people who are now married to people they have met on Match as I am sure you do too...but I think I need a lil more convincing so help me out!

2 comments:

  1. Don't knock onlne dating...if u put ur truth on there when answering questions it will come through. Online dating is an option to the many options of dating. You have to be fully be open to technology to try this because Its not for everyone. Go in with an open mnd...I 've tried it but I'm old skool I do prefer The eyes across the room thing, but I wouldn't rule out the adventure of online dating..I've heard alot of success stories.

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  2. I had some success and failures with online dating. It's not a issue with time or not having the ability to go out and find someone, it a vehicle to help you go outside your regular areas and confinements of your own personal bubble. You may meet someone online that you wouldn't have come across otherwise. Keep an open mind.

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