To F*ck Or Not To F*uck- That Is The Question

Well I knew this would get your attention... LOL ...and when your first meeting someone your definately not making any love...sooo I think the title is appropriate.

There is still much debate on whether or not a guy will still like a woman if they have sex on the first date.  I have talked to plenty of guys/girls and have gotten various different opinions... but here is what I believe..

I think if you want a substantial relationship with someone... it's not good to have sex on the first date... or the first anything... I also think that guys say it's okay cause REALLY they just want to get it... and will say anything to do so.

I do however think and know there are certain cases where it doesn't really matter (on the first date) and that's.  If you have known the guy for a while already possibly socially and you guys decide to see what's what and go on a date... you might have sex on that first date but a relationship had already been kind of established so no it's not a big deal... and just adds to the reasons you liked each other in the first.. place... the second is when they guy likes YOU way more than you like him... and no matter what happens he just likes you... so it's not a turn off if you screw early cause he just plain old wants to be with you.

Now some of you may agree with me on this or not... but for me... and this is being very honest I know I have to be screwing someone else in order to not have sex with the guy I like... carnality is a usual process... but if I really want to get to know someone I mean really know someone I can't have sex with them on the first date... cause honestly... I loose interest... or they become what everyone tends to become a booty call.

Some of you are probably thinking wow.. this is wow... and your right...I am honest and I may be shooting myself in the foot a bit... but hey...life is too short to play games with yourself or anyone else...so if your footloose and fancy free... get your freak on!  Otherwise.. try and keep the goodies for a while...then you will see what is really going on :)