There is sometimes this grand debate on black women dating white men... well I am truly and equal opportunity employer... and have dated some of everyone...and by everyone...even Asian!
I have also dated every shape... size... and color... I mean how are you supposed to know what you want unless you try it... it's like a wine tasting... you pour your self a little... swish it around your mouth....then hmmm... I like this one and I don't like that one... or maybe I will stick with this...or try this one next time.
My point why limit yourself... now I think things get touchy when someone tries to push an opinion on you... about which race is better to date and blah blah blah...I'm not going to do that...because honestly and man is a man... and I am clearly still single...so race makes no difference... but what is different... is choices... and opening up your dating pool... if every black woman is going after a black man... and so is every other race of the female persuasion... then your chances are limited.
Black men have a ton of options... and we limit ourselves... and then ask why can't we find a good man... well you only want to find a Good Black Man... not a good Man... cause he is out there.. he just may not be in the package you think... and you will never know... cause you won't step outside of the box.
I hear all the time... other races don't hit on me and I don't think they are looking at me... well it's cause you are not looking at or for them and they can tell... it starts by just simply having a conversation and then see what happens... go for coffee... you don't have to kiss or make out or anything... and eureka... you are on a whole new dating path... then the doors will open up... and you are back on a dating spree!
Take it from me... you can't talk about something you don't know about... so try it you might like it :)
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