I Am Not Obsessed!

Is it just me or now a days single women are obsessed with being in relationships...so much so...they settle for anything...I understand that you feel like your clock is ticking but have you even taken stock in what you want.

Are you even prepared for it when it comes...we sit around saying I want a man I want a man...but what kind...and who is our ideal...we make list...long first then they get shorter as we get older...maybe if we just took a second and said...okay I'm gonna do me until you prepare me for the good good.

Sometimes it seems,  that because my every waking moment is not chasing some guy around or constantly talking about it or where he is...or out searching for him that something is wrong with me.  Years ago friends tried to make me believe that I was less than cause I didn't have a boyfriend.  Like I didn't know how to handle a relationship cause I didn't put the boyfriend label on it!

I'm sorry but I'm not Obsessed I have never been a my clock is ticking...here's what I would love my wedding dress to look like...I will take what I can get type of person...I have also dealt with the fact that in this life I may not meet the man of my dreams or my soul mate or what ever you wanna call it.

I also think we fall victim to societies standards of these are the things you need to be a complete person...but we all know society has changed sooo much and nothing is ever as black and white as it used to be...I mean people are having babies more and more out of wedlock and then maybe consider getting married later!

Sometimes God's plans are not your plans, do I want companionship absolutely...do I want to be married...sure if the guy has the same beliefs in marriage that I do...do I want children?  I can take it or leave it...see there is a clear indication of what I want and need.

If he's out there he's out there if he isn't trust life will proceed to go on!  If you stop worrying about what it looks like you might find the right guy will find you!