Mrs. Steal Yo Man

So admittedly... I have consciously and sub-consciously done this action... I was listening to the Trey Song's song... and he calls himself Mr. Steal your girl!

When I say I have consciously done this I mean in my teens and parts of college...but to me... a man having a girlfriend was no big deal and men make mistakes all the time... clearly you were not happy where you were cause if so you wouldn't be with me... and yadi yadi boo boo!

See the problem is when I see what I want I go after it... and it's not often that someone catches my eye on a personal level... so when they do... I have to know them... talk to them... see them... I WANT them... that's a dangerous place to be...but who's getting hurt... in high school and college I felt we are far to young for those types of serious relationships... and I know what your thinking who am I to say so...but if he didn't feel the same he wouldn't have been with me either.

But...it may be biting me in my ass my friends...I sometimes have been approached by married men known to me not known to me... and of course the one's not known to me well...they tricked me and feelings were involved and other circumstances so you make a mistake.

Then you understand you DON'T deserve to be second to any one... and you start feeling bad for the woman on the other end...and I realized even what I was doing in college and high school still caused the same painful affect... and now I may be paying for those decision's I made so long ago... I do subscribe to cause and effect... and for every action there is an opposite and equal reaction.

I would never want to cause anyone pain...nor would I want someone to cause me that same pain...I wish it could be as simple as everyone was just honest and no one cheated... I don't think this post is going to save the world...but I do know there won't be no more man stealing over here!